There have been times in my life when I have stood before a board table full of men to plead my case or that of another. Nine times out of ten, I knew more about the topic and had more firsthand experience than they did, yet just standing in front of men who all looked alike…I could feel myself shrinking. Even now after twenty years of public service, I am still watching women shrink. In 2024, I ask each time a pastor calls me to speak, “Is the congregation alright with a woman delivering the message?”
Stories
An Ecouragement for November
I cannot say that I’ve felt much like laughing as of late. Between feelings of general “church weariness,” election angst, charge conference season… it all feels a bit like living in a giant woodworking vise. The pressure keeps increasing, and with each twist of the handle, I wonder if this will be the one that ultimately breaks me. Maybe you can relate. I haven’t run the numbers in any sort of clinical manner, but from casual conversation, most of my friends are feeling a bit squished at the moment…
An Encouragement for October
I am preparing to take a renewal leave for the month of November. I have some things planned and days with no plans. I will take a social media fast. I will see friends and visit the beach. I am so grateful for the women who have taken Sabbatical and renewal leave. So many have been encouraging both from their example or non-example: “I wish I would’ve taken more rest.”
An Encouragement for September
As summer gives way to fall, I’m reminded of the transitions that occur in both nature and life. On my recent journey to Yellowstone National Park, I witnessed the striking shifts in the landscape—from forested, rugged mountains to the deep, glacier-carved valleys, all within minutes. These dramatic transitions in the terrain reflected the changes we experience in life—often unpredictable yet breathtaking in their own way.
An Encouragement for August
We’ve come a long way since the days of Sheerah. However, it is still difficult for women to receive the credit they deserve in the workplace and even within our churches. Women are doing the building and the rebuilding even now – within our families, our churches, and our governments!
An Encouragement for July
A few weeks ago, the ACLAMEN Association (Asociación de Clérigas Latinas Metodistas Nacional) organized an online webinar for clergywomen featuring Bishop Minerva G. Carcaño and Bishop Lizette Gabriel Montalvo. They shared valuable advice on practicing self-care while holding demanding leadership positions. They emphasized the importance of having a community of siblings in Christ who journey with us, taking regular retreats, prioritizing family, maintaining a prayer life, practicing meditation, exercising, and eating healthily. They also addressed the challenge of managing people’s expectations, advising us to consider God’s expectations in each situation.