Safer Sanctuaries
Children, Youth & Vulnerable Adults
Safer Sanctuaries is the movement and initiative to fulfill the call upon us—to make our churches safe places for the young, the vulnerable, and those in ministry with them.
Note: Safe Sanctuaries is now Safer Sanctuaries.


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Creating & Implementing Safer Sanctuaries Policies
Every church in the NC Conference is required to have a Safer Sanctuaries policy to protect children, youth, and vulnerable adults.
You’ll find sample policies, training expectations, and step-by-step instructions for setting up background checks using the conference’s approved provider to help you design and implement a policy tailored to your congregation’s needs.
Safer Sanctuaries Policies
The conference Safer Sanctuaries Committee is available to resource local churches as they develop their own unique policies. It is the responsibility of a local church to train its volunteers and staff on that church’s policies and procedures.
Sample Policies and Resources
- Safer Sanctuaries Policy Guide
Suggested procedures and ideas for local churches as they design and implement their own policy. - Small Membership Church
- Large Membership Church
- North Carolina Conference Safer Sanctuaries Policy
Please note that while the language in the sample policies addresses children and child abuse, consider how it may be expanded to care for youth and vulnerable adults.
Background Checks
People Facts is the conference’s background check service provider. Its prices are affordable, and the turnaround time is short.
To Set Up An Account
Clergy, call the New Accounts representative at 800-600-8999 ext. 3431. Tell them that you are with the NC Conference of The UMC Southeast Jurisdiction and that you would like to set up an account for your church. That way, you will get the same discounted pricing that our conference gets. They will walk you through the application. It can usually be done in one day, and you can submit your first background check request the same day.
Training, Tools & Prevention Resources
Equipping your church with clear guidelines and training is essential for abuse prevention.
Find scripts, presentations, and videos to support Safer Sanctuaries training efforts. You’ll also find best practices for supervising youth, using social media responsibly, and creating safe, inclusive environments for all, including LGBTQ youth and nursery-aged children.
Training Documents & Videos
Basic Training
- Safer Sanctuaries: Abuse Prevention Training Slideshow
- Safer Sanctuaries: Abuse Prevention Training Script
- Eight Common Myths About Child Sexual Abuse
Abuse Reporting
Effective Communication in Times of Crisis
- Session 1 – Crisis Planning and Strategic Response Webinar
- Session 2 – Audiences and Messaging Webinar
- Session 3 – Dealing with the News Media Webinar
Introduction to Safer Sanctuaries
How I Came to Love Permission Slips
How to use these crucial forms for contact and medical notification of the children and youth who participate in your events.
Inclusion and Hospitality for LGBTQ Youth
Ways to reduce the risk of harm and abuse for this vulnerable population.
Special Considerations & Complex Situations
Some situations require additional care and discernment.
Learn how to navigate ministry involving registered sex offenders with grace and accountability. Guidance includes developing participation covenants, understanding legal and insurance implications, and maintaining safe boundaries for all. Sample covenants and communication strategies are included to support your congregation in these sensitive matters.
Ministry with Registered Sex Offenders
We are called to offer grace to all persons, yet how do we best do this and protect children, youth, and vulnerable adults? By the guidelines of Safer Sanctuaries, anyone who is a registered sex offender may not be in ministry with children, youth, or vulnerable adults. Additionally, anyone who is a registered sex offender must have a covenant with the congregation with which he/she is connected. While we want to include all people in the life of the congregation, we know from research and experience that we put those who have offended in a difficult position without these boundaries in place. Keep in mind that those on the registry understand the need for boundaries, so be open and transparent.
Understanding the participation of registered sex offenders is vital in creating healthy boundaries and accountability in our congregations.
This short video will introduce this aspect of Safer Sanctuaries, opening up conversation for small groups, during training, and in congregational gatherings.
When developing a covenant to include a registered sex offender in your church:
- Know the state laws, and know that when this person is released and registers, it becomes public knowledge.
- Gauge the congregation, and discuss how you will present this situation to different groups in your congregation to help them understand the balance of safety and grace.
- Under NO circumstances may the person ever work with children, youth, or vulnerable adults.
- Secure written consent from the individual to talk to his/her parole officer, and have a candid conversation with the parole officer. It is best if the three of you can meet to talk about the terms of the covenant.
- When writing your covenant, remember three things, provide safe spaces for all congregants, care for all of God’s children, and believe in repentance and forgiveness.
- Consult with your insurance agent. Ensure that the church has insurance coverage. Knowingly allowing an offender in the congregation can possibly affect insurance coverage. Make sure you talk to the insurance carrier and secure a written affirmation of coverage. Providing your agent with a covenant agreement is helpful to show the church was protecting children, youth, and vulnerable adults.
What the Covenant Contains:
- Begin with a Statement of Grace – Outline the redemptive power of grace and the need to create a safe place where no harm is done. Can state that the document is done for the protection of all. Ensure the vulnerable are protected. Provide accountability for the offender as well as prevent false accusations.
- Include Terms of Participation – This will vary but should always include:
- The individual will not accept any leadership or representational position within or on behalf of the church.
- The individual will have covenant partners who are adults who are not related to the offender. It should be clear that a covenant partner MUST be present to be on the church grounds.
- There should be NO relationship with a child, youth, or vulnerable adult who cannot participate in those types of ministries.
- Parole Officer – Initial the agreement and should keep it on file.
- Change in Leadership – All parties know about the agreement so issues will not slip through the cracks because there is a change in leadership.
- New congregation—If the offender leaves the church and transfers to another church, the new church will be notified.
Example covenants and sample protection agreements:
- Discipleship Ministries: Protection and Integration of Known Sexual Offenders
- Foundry UMC, Washington, D.C.
- Foundry UMC Covenant Letter
- Goshen UMC, Gaithersburg, Maryland
- Fridley UMC, Fridley, Minnesota
Insurance Information
For all sexual offenses, ensure that the church has insurance coverage for two reasons:
- A registered sex offender is now a part of the congregation
- Ability to provide resources for the affected party and not damage the ability of the church to continue mission.
Knowingly allowing an offender in the congregation can possibly affect insurance coverage. Make sure you talk to the insurance carrier and secure written affirmation. A covenant agreement is helpful to show the church did not participate in putting people in a vulnerable position for both insurance and court.
Getting Support & Additional Resources
When questions arise, support is available.
Connect with the Safer Sanctuaries Committee for consultation and guidance. You’ll also find links to additional conference resources such as the Media Center and the Sexual Misconduct Hotline for urgent concerns.
Requesting Help
The Safer Sanctuaries Committee is your resource for answering questions, sharing best practices, and consulting with you and your team as you create your own policy.
If you need help, contact Rev. Charlotte Brendel, chair of the committee, at cbrendel@nccumc.org.
Sexual Misconduct Hotline
For help and direction concerning an incident of misconduct, please call:
800-946-2926
Media Center Resources
Check out resources available to borrow from the NC Conference Media Center.

