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What I Read in 2020

January 11, 2021 Leave a Comment

I hope it's not too late to post my "what I read last year" list! In 2020, I read my typical eclectic assortment of books. I did focus on anti-racism reading, both fiction and non-fiction. The ... Continue Reading→

Up to 11

September 7, 2020 Leave a Comment

This Is Spinal Tap is one of my all-time favorite movies. The 1984 mockumentary follows the heavy metal band, Spinal Tap, on tour. Lead guitarist, Nigel Tufnel, brilliantly played by actor ... Continue Reading→

Finding Balance

August 24, 2020 Leave a Comment

Systems Thinking I believe that our very survival depends on us becoming better systems thinkers.Margaret Wheatley Thinking about systems can help us understand stubborn resistance to change. ... Continue Reading→

The More Things Change

August 11, 2020 Leave a Comment

"The more things change, the more they stay the same." This saying is probably familiar to many of us. It is actually a translation of a French phrase coined in 1849 by writer Jean-Baptiste Alphonse ... Continue Reading→

528 years

June 8, 2020 Leave a Comment

Before COVID-19 hit the United States, I was posting about Bowen Family Systems Theory. I described family systems and argued that religious groups operate like family systems. I had listed the ... Continue Reading→

Where Is God in Conflict?

May 26, 2020 Leave a Comment

When we are in the midst of conflict, we may struggle to feel the presence of God. Marisa Sifontes, a student at Candler School of Theology at Emory University, recently reflected on the presence of ... Continue Reading→

A Self in Relationship

March 9, 2020 Leave a Comment

Differentiation of Self is a core concept in Bowen Family Systems Theory. Bowen borrowed the concept of differentiation from cell biology. All cells start out presumably as stem cells. As cells mature ... Continue Reading→

Triangle Talk

February 3, 2020 Leave a Comment

January is over and we are well in to the new year. This month we return to the concepts of Bowen Family Systems Theory. I want to add more details about triangling because it is one of the most ... Continue Reading→

What I Read in 2019

January 6, 2020 Leave a Comment

We've turned the calendar page from 2019 to 2020.  I thought I'd take a quick break from Bowen Family Systems Theory, to share my year in books.  2019 was another year of eclectic reading choices.  As ... Continue Reading→

Triangles Everywhere

December 16, 2019 Leave a Comment

A triangle is a geometric shape with three sides and three angles that always add up to 180. A triangle is also the smallest stable unit of human relationship in Bowen Family Systems Theory. Say ... Continue Reading→

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Psalm 133:1 NRSV

How pleasant it is when kindred live together in unity!
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