I hope it's not too late to post my "what I read last year" list! In 2020, I read my typical eclectic assortment of books. I did focus on anti-racism reading, both fiction and non-fiction. The ... Continue Reading→

This Is Spinal Tap is one of my all-time favorite movies. The 1984 mockumentary follows the heavy metal band, Spinal Tap, on tour. Lead guitarist, Nigel Tufnel, brilliantly played by actor ... Continue Reading→

Systems Thinking I believe that our very survival depends on us becoming better systems thinkers.Margaret Wheatley Thinking about systems can help us understand stubborn resistance to change. ... Continue Reading→

"The more things change, the more they stay the same." This saying is probably familiar to many of us. It is actually a translation of a French phrase coined in 1849 by writer Jean-Baptiste Alphonse ... Continue Reading→

Before COVID-19 hit the United States, I was posting about Bowen Family Systems Theory. I described family systems and argued that religious groups operate like family systems. I had listed the ... Continue Reading→

When we are in the midst of conflict, we may struggle to feel the presence of God. Marisa Sifontes, a student at Candler School of Theology at Emory University, recently reflected on the presence of ... Continue Reading→

Differentiation of Self is a core concept in Bowen Family Systems Theory. Bowen borrowed the concept of differentiation from cell biology. All cells start out presumably as stem cells. As cells mature ... Continue Reading→

January is over and we are well in to the new year. This month we return to the concepts of Bowen Family Systems Theory. I want to add more details about triangling because it is one of the most ... Continue Reading→

We've turned the calendar page from 2019 to 2020.  I thought I'd take a quick break from Bowen Family Systems Theory, to share my year in books.  2019 was another year of eclectic reading choices.  As ... Continue Reading→

A triangle is a geometric shape with three sides and three angles that always add up to 180. A triangle is also the smallest stable unit of human relationship in Bowen Family Systems Theory. Say ... Continue Reading→